Good morning, I'm a 35 year old female I am Christian and saved myself for marriage a year and a half ago, me and my husband have not been able to have penetrative sexual intercourse as he can't enter into me, to be honest we haven't used lube yet which I know will help but I have looked at myself down there and can see that I look closed up, I have never used tampons, but have used a small vibrator once and it's got inside, what I want to ask is it normal to be closed up at first?