I am 18, 6'1'', and weight approximately 150. Well I had just been talking to this girl recently and we have had unprotected sex 5 times. the fourth and fifth time were in the same night. She is not very sexually experienced, but I have been with four other women. After the third day after pulling two times in one night, she was hurting so badly that she went to the doctor. The doctor first said it was a yeast infection, then a uti, then herpes. I am concerned because I have never shown signs of it and neither have my former partners. A day after I had two red bumps show up on the top and underside of my shaft. They were two small red bumps, they did not hurt except i tried to pop them and I only irritated them. Is this herpes? What should I do if it is?