i'm married and about a couple of weeks ago my husband wanted to have sex. i was oral copulating him and i felt with my tongue a small paper like cut. i turn on the lights to show him and he was acting like nothing was there but i felt it and when i looked at his penis the paperlike cut was where the skin of the shaft meets the rest of the penis he is not circumsized. i immediately cease the sex. a few weeks later the cut was gone. is this a sign of herpes