My brother in law is dying had cardiac arrest, is unconsious, and? they had a hard time putting needles in him...so they went in his neck...It is worse that i am saying I am just unable to verbalize what is all going on...He is in CCU Should i ask for tomorrow off of work ? even though it is A SHORT NOTICE and they want a longer notice. but this just came on all of a sudden...The fires in CA did NOT help his situation. What can i say to my boss ?