Hello Doctor..I m 30 y old male & my wife is 29 Y old, married from last 5 years & have a 4 year daughter. My is 4 months pregnant. From many days I want to take & give ORAL SEX with my wife. But she refuses as she does'nt likes it. I just want to ask that is ORAL SEX unhygeinic? & is it right to do with a pregnant woman? & if yes, then how should i convince her
If the genital parts are kept hygienically clean and if there is no sexually transmitted infection, oral sex is not unhygienic. There are different steps - from just applying lips to the genital parts to swallowing the secretion or ejaculation of the sex. To which stage to proceed is an individual choice.
However, if the partner does not like oral sex and hates it, it may create psychological trauma and she may loose sexual interest. Please do not compel.
Hi Dr. Purushottam welcomes you to HCM virtual clinic. I have gone through your query. I think I have understood your concern, I will try to suggest you the best possible treatment options. 1] As a good partner, respect feelings of other partner. 2] It is safe to have safe oral sex during pregnancy. Pregnant lady should avoid swallowing semen. 3] But if she does not like oral sex i will suggest not to go ahead with it.
I hope my answer helps you. Thanks. Wish you good health.
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Can Oral Sex Be Performed During Pregnancy?
Dear Friend, If the genital parts are kept hygienically clean and if there is no sexually transmitted infection, oral sex is not unhygienic. There are different steps - from just applying lips to the genital parts to swallowing the secretion or ejaculation of the sex. To which stage to proceed is an individual choice. However, if the partner does not like oral sex and hates it, it may create psychological trauma and she may loose sexual interest. Please do not compel. Oral sex is safe in pregnancy. Hope this helps you.