My mother told me that her abusive mother-in-law (my grandmother) forced my mother to try to abort me by sitting over a can of kerosene so the fumes would cause her to abort--numerous times. I m here but I have autoimmune problems and am much slower mentally than my 2 brothers. Could the kerosene fumes have caused developmental or other problems and if yes, what kind of test should I get...a brain scan? Thank you!