Firstly, you did not mention your age and if you are still menstruating. Bleeding during intercourse is most likely due to unhealthy cervix and the fact that colposcopy
had caused the bleeding confirms this. You should get a pap smear
and a fractional curettage to rule out uterine and cervical issues. You may also need a urethroscopy in addition to a pelvic ultrasound
to know the cause of blood in urine. Pain at the end of urination implies some urethral problem. Your tiredness
could be due to the anemia
. Lastly, I would like to add that in the peri and postmenopausal states the mucosal linings of the vagina and the urethra get thinner and this could lead to traumatic bleeding as occurs during intercourse. Please contact your doctor for further clarifications. Take care.