hello ms abha singh .. gud to hear from u..
i hope its nearly 9 mths u ve been married and its an arranged one ..so u need time to understand ur husband is what u have writen.
as ur 30 yrs now ,medically i suggest u to get conceived before 35 but better as early as possible in order to avoid medical complications to the baby arising out of late deliverie ie. any congenital defects in the baby..
anyways try to convince ur husband and in laws regarding ur worries and prepare ur mind for childbirth as u said ur an Indian and hope u would definitely adjust unless there is any grave problem..
so medically i suggest u can wait for some time but as i said early pregnancy
is always better after 30 yrs..
so al the best and take a right decision..