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16 Year Old, Feeling To Hurt Oneself, Hydrophobia, School Phobia Introvert. Help?
hii I am 16 YRS OLD.. MY PRBLM IS THT, I FEEL SO ALONE N SOMETIME S WHEN MY THOUGHT WAS SO LOUD..then only the thing come s to my mind was violence..especially at tht moment i tried to hurt myself..smtimes i was just behave lke absent mind,i don t know wht s going on around me..i am nt intrsting in living lfe..tht tme i jst cry or take sme rest thn i feel better..bt i am afraid tht if get succeed to hurt myself..hydrophobia..we all know tht it s a kind of phobia or a fear frm water likewise i hve a phobia of my schoolmate s i use to say it school-phobia..frm few day s i am nt going to my school regularly becoz i don t know wht happen s to me bt i have a sme kind of fear..i am nt able to face my classmate s..instead of tht regularly i use to pray to god tht plz call me back, i don t want to live any more.DAY BY DAY I AM JST BECOMING LKE WE CAN SAY INTROVET..AT HOME I FEEL BETTER BT IN SCHOOL..DON T KNOW WHT HAPPENS TO ME I CAN T ABLE TO SAY A SINGLE WORD PROPERLY INFRNT OF MY CLASS MATE S..IN SCHOOL IF SOMEBODY COME TO ME N SAY HOW ARE U N ASK ME TO SAY SOMETHNG..THN SMETIMES IT ALSO HAPPEN S WITH ME THT I START CRYING.IF SMEONE LOOK AT ME HE OR SHE THNK I AM SO HAPPY BUT FRM INSIDE DEEP IN MY HEART THERE IS A PAIN..FEAR..!!
Tue, 31 Jul 2012
Hi Choti,
Welcome to healthcare magic!
Sixteen is a wonderful age, when you are neither child nor adult, so is your psychology- it is child at one moment and an adult at another, so much hormonal changes in the body to adjust!
It is a challenging age.
You are comfortable at home but UNDER-PRESSURE when at school.
It is either the studies or your social status related to your peers.
But you are having an Inferiority Complex.
Do not be disheartened, remain with your closest friends, do not avoid them.
Have regular studies and have discussions with your classmates, learn new things everyday, do not hide your knowledge, let others learn from you. You will build your self image by these behavioral modification.
You can consult you psychiatrist also for a counseling and some supportive medications.
I hope this advise would be helpful for you.
Still if you have any queries or doubts, please write me back,
I would be happy to solve them.
Wish you a great health!
Welcome to healthcare magic!
Sixteen is a wonderful age, when you are neither child nor adult, so is your psychology- it is child at one moment and an adult at another, so much hormonal changes in the body to adjust!
It is a challenging age.
You are comfortable at home but UNDER-PRESSURE when at school.
It is either the studies or your social status related to your peers.
But you are having an Inferiority Complex.
Do not be disheartened, remain with your closest friends, do not avoid them.
Have regular studies and have discussions with your classmates, learn new things everyday, do not hide your knowledge, let others learn from you. You will build your self image by these behavioral modification.
You can consult you psychiatrist also for a counseling and some supportive medications.
I hope this advise would be helpful for you.
Still if you have any queries or doubts, please write me back,
I would be happy to solve them.
Wish you a great health!
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