Brief Answer:
Masturbation does not cause any problem

Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXX,

Thanks for writing to us.

I can understand your concern.Congratulations for your marriage.

Masturbation is normal process done by 95% of men during their lifetime. It is safe and effective way to satisfy sexual desire.Specifically in adolescents, unmarried men and married men who are away from wife do the masturbation normally.

It is same process like sex. Just technique differs. It neither affects sexual life nor health of the person.
Though you have masturbate for 12 years, it has no relation with current problem.

Initially after marriage, many couple face this problem.Sometime it will take 1-2 months that couple get satisfied with their sexual life.
Reasons for this problem are performance anxiety, adaption to sex positions, lack of emotional attachment between couple.Normally it does not require any medicines. Sex and couple counseling are sufficient to treat the same.


To help you further I would like to know few things from your side.

- Duration of marriage life? Frequency of sex? How much time did you succeed completely in sex?

-Did you have any experience about sex before marriage ? If yes, please describe the details.

- Do you have habit of smoking, tobacco chewing or alcohol? If yes, let me know quantity, duration and frequency of the same.

- Do you have any physical problem?

-Have you noticed erect penis when you wake up in morning?

- How much you wife is cooperative for sex?

Waiting for your reply to help you further.

Regards,

Dr.Chintan Solanki.







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