Brief Answer:
Your problem is treatable.
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for your query.
I appreciate your efforts for medical consultation in so much distress.
Important aspects of your query are:
• 23 year old male
• Complaints of: negative thinking, difficulty in talking to others, remaining isolated, hesitation and fear of that people will laugh at you.
Your clinical picture and symptoms are related to
social anxiety problem. Other symptoms of anxiety which may or may not be present in your case: nervousness,
restlessness, mild irritability, excessive worry regarding own health/job, tremor, muscle spasm, heaviness in body, easy fatigability, headache, sleep disturbance,
palpitation and dry mouth.
Anxiety occurs due to
neurotransmitters imbalance in brain most commonly involving serotonin neurotransmitter. You may need treatment with
psychiatrist to treat your anxiety. It is not clear if you received any treatment in past, but believe me people life changes after treatment.
There is need for treatment, if symptoms cause significant personal distress or affect personal/professional life (like in your case). Both drug and non drug treatment like cognitive
behaviour therapy (form of
psychotherapy) are used for treatment. Choice of treatment depends on severity of symptoms, personal preference and availability of treatment.
In drug treatment two types of medicine used. For immediate relief of anxiety benzodiazepines group of medicines are used and for long term relief most commonly SSRI (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) are used. SSRI takes around 3-4 weeks to show its effect. Non drug treatment like cognitive behaviour therapy (form of psychotherapy) also takes weeks to show its effect.
These medicines are prescription medicine and given after in person examination by physician. All these process is complex. I have just simplified it to make you understand it.
So, keep aside your hesitation and meet your nearby psychiatrist. I see response within 1-2 months in my patients who are having problem like yours and I wish same for you.
I hope this information has been both informative and helpful for you. In case of any doubt, I will be available for follow ups.
Wish you good health.
Regards,