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Suggest Treatment For Premature Ejaculation
Question: Hi doctor...I am one and half years old married girl...I love my husband very much he too loves me...weekly thrice we have sex but not IC bcoz I delivered a baby 7 months ago...soon he becomes tired ie..once the liquid is out...but my mood still continues...so he lost his interest...but I need him very badly..I feel very upset...I dono wat to do to control my mood...And how to prolong his mood....
Brief Answer:
Counseling and communication
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
I understand your concern. I do not think there is any organic problem here. It mostly means a lot about adding a new member in the family and having expectations about the partner. He seems to have premature ejaculation.
Did you talk to your husband elaborately about you being upset? If not first talk to him.
Second after a baby generally the husband would not want to disturb the wife for too long time.
Set the expectations right with your husband with the frequency. Yes sometimes the demand would not match the other partner. But there are ways to solve this problem. You can help him achieving a longer time.
He can masturbate before he comes into the bedroom. The second time participation might prolong the ejaculation. HE can learn to stop just before ejaculation and he needs your support again. You can start all over again.
all these can be taught by a sexual counselor in the clinic. You couple need a couple therapy in the form of counselor. Persuade him to visit one
Counseling and communication
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
I understand your concern. I do not think there is any organic problem here. It mostly means a lot about adding a new member in the family and having expectations about the partner. He seems to have premature ejaculation.
Did you talk to your husband elaborately about you being upset? If not first talk to him.
Second after a baby generally the husband would not want to disturb the wife for too long time.
Set the expectations right with your husband with the frequency. Yes sometimes the demand would not match the other partner. But there are ways to solve this problem. You can help him achieving a longer time.
He can masturbate before he comes into the bedroom. The second time participation might prolong the ejaculation. HE can learn to stop just before ejaculation and he needs your support again. You can start all over again.
all these can be taught by a sexual counselor in the clinic. You couple need a couple therapy in the form of counselor. Persuade him to visit one
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Dr. Neel Kudchadkar
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