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Suggest Remedy To Reduce Pain During Intercourse
Question: hello doctors,
i hope should i have a solution from here
let me tel my problem,
i was married in this march, but not yet had sex with my wife, because when we try to have sex she will struggle with pain , and push me back to insert in to vagina, so we try a lot of times, but i cant insert in her vagina, every time she faces more pain, so we are worried about it, we searched in website about our issue, we got a valuable information from there, her hymen is too rigid
my question is, can you suggest any oliment or lubricant that helps my wife for reduce her pain rigidity on his fist time sex?
i hope should i have a solution from here
let me tel my problem,
i was married in this march, but not yet had sex with my wife, because when we try to have sex she will struggle with pain , and push me back to insert in to vagina, so we try a lot of times, but i cant insert in her vagina, every time she faces more pain, so we are worried about it, we searched in website about our issue, we got a valuable information from there, her hymen is too rigid
my question is, can you suggest any oliment or lubricant that helps my wife for reduce her pain rigidity on his fist time sex?
Brief Answer:
use K-Y jelly
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for writing..
I understand your concern..
Your wife might have a rigid hymen or vaginismus. This can also be due to anxiety. Proper relaxation exercise is important. Never hurry.. There are certain things you can try..
1. Breathing exercise and yoga should be practised.. Breath in and out while penetration..
2.Counselling with a sexologist will help.First insert a lubricated finger of the wife intop vagina and continue for a week. Then repeat it with 2 lubricated fingers of wife. When she is comfortable repeat it with your husband's finger, first with 1 finger and repeat with 2 fingers. Each process should take atleast 5 days gap.
3. When she is comfortable,after foreplay and apply lubricant and intercourse can be tried.. During the process, proper relaxation is required.
4. Avoid stress. Dont be in hurry..
The lubricants would be K-Y jelly, Vagisil Intimate Moisturizer, or Replens Vaginal Mosturizer or plain vaseline jelly.
If unsuccessful get a vaginal examination with your doctor to rule out any infection or problems..
Hope I have answered your query. Feel free to ask any doubt.. Good day..
use K-Y jelly
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for writing..
I understand your concern..
Your wife might have a rigid hymen or vaginismus. This can also be due to anxiety. Proper relaxation exercise is important. Never hurry.. There are certain things you can try..
1. Breathing exercise and yoga should be practised.. Breath in and out while penetration..
2.Counselling with a sexologist will help.First insert a lubricated finger of the wife intop vagina and continue for a week. Then repeat it with 2 lubricated fingers of wife. When she is comfortable repeat it with your husband's finger, first with 1 finger and repeat with 2 fingers. Each process should take atleast 5 days gap.
3. When she is comfortable,after foreplay and apply lubricant and intercourse can be tried.. During the process, proper relaxation is required.
4. Avoid stress. Dont be in hurry..
The lubricants would be K-Y jelly, Vagisil Intimate Moisturizer, or Replens Vaginal Mosturizer or plain vaseline jelly.
If unsuccessful get a vaginal examination with your doctor to rule out any infection or problems..
Hope I have answered your query. Feel free to ask any doubt.. Good day..
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Shanthi.E
thank doctors for your answer, i will follow the steps. thanks.
but you told to use fingers first, i already discussed it with my wife, but she never allowed this, she is more affried on using fingers, and she never allow to touch her vagina, because she felt pain with a small touch on there,
is it because of any infections in her vagina?
but you told to use fingers first, i already discussed it with my wife, but she never allowed this, she is more affried on using fingers, and she never allow to touch her vagina, because she felt pain with a small touch on there,
is it because of any infections in her vagina?
Brief Answer:
Dont worry
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for writing..
I feel she is nervous and has a fear of sex. She requires a good counselling from the sexologist to remove her fears..
First she has to insert her own lubricated fingers.. Give her a good emotional support to remove fears..
Hope I have answered your query. If no furthur doubts, please close the conversation and rate my answer.. Good day..
Dont worry
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for writing..
I feel she is nervous and has a fear of sex. She requires a good counselling from the sexologist to remove her fears..
First she has to insert her own lubricated fingers.. Give her a good emotional support to remove fears..
Hope I have answered your query. If no furthur doubts, please close the conversation and rate my answer.. Good day..
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Vinay Bhardwaj
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