Question: None of the meds are helping much since i have developed a resistance. Only a glass of wine at night helps sometimes. My dr recommends electros but i dont want to go thay route. Should i keep trying meds. ...

I used to take effexsor which was very strong but was taken away by my oncologyst when I had breast cancer more than ten years ago. I have also been on xanax but puts me to sleep . I tried Wellbutrin and I was a mess, also Mirtazapine, was bad for me. I believe I also tried Zoloft, no good. I did try Abilify, was terrible. I have not tried Prozac. I settled on Paxil for a long time and it worked, even my though it ruined my sex life. Now in the mids of a big crisis where my husband of 30 years who was also an abusive husband asked for a divorce... Etc nothing works. Not the Paxil or the Lorazepan for anxiety or the clonacepan. I am not taking valium or xanax. Maybe valium would be ok but not xanax (too strong). I am becoming a vegetable where I find no purpose or XXXXXXX in my life after trying soo hard for so long. I do have two professional good adult children.
I forgot that I also take Buspar .... It does nothing. My worse time is in the morning and the daytime. For some reason I feel more calm at night. I jus feel like being in bed. I am even afraid to go to the grocery store.... O check the mail or go to the back yard. It all makes me sad. I am now leaving in a different state for reasons that are involved . I do have cuban friends here because I am a poet and they know me. I did work many years as an accountant in Wash Dc and in my husband business to make a small fortune. Now he is in the house in Maryland. He is very aggresive, drinks too much and was very abusive. But all. The effort to keep the family together was in vain.

Thank you Dr. I will discuss your suggestions with my Dr. Hope I can get you if I need to ask again. Thanks. Ada Bezos Castilla