I had a very prolonged and intense sexual encounter with a woman 10 weeks ago (using a condom w/ spermicide) . This woman later told me that she has herpes (had it for 5 years, been asymptomatic for last 2 years, using daily antivirals for past few months) and also treated herself for a yeast infection a couple of days later. I experienced soreness the very next day (redness/burning around urethra)... a couple of weeks later, a couple of small sores developed (less than 1/4 the size of a pencil eraser), one on the glans, the other on the foreskin.. After researching online, I suspected a yeast infection and treated myself with a Monistat 1 kit (oral & cream).. used the cream for a week, with no results... after 4 weeks, I saw a doctor, who treated me for a yeast infection (used clotrimaderm cream for a week - no results).. saw another doctor who treated me for possible HSV infection.. he prescribed viaderm and valtrex (500mg twice daily for 1 week, viaderm cream for 2 weeks).. I had a blood test for HSV antibodies and he took a swab of the sore areas.. waited 2 weeks for the blood test results - negative (the old sores healed, but new sores appeared in different areas on the glans), after 3 weeks, the culture also came back negative.. saw a dermatologist at 7 weeks.. he said possible herpes and prescribed 2%HC pwd in Nystatin.. after 2 weeks (week 9), visited another doctor and requested a requisition for Blood PCR.. returned to dermatologist after another week (week 10).. sores healed but redness still apparent around urethra; mild tingling sensation still present.. dermatologist now saying herpes less likely than balanitis... still waiting on PCR blood test results. The dermatologist tells me that the PCR test should have been done on the sores with 72 hours in order to be accurate, and that a PCR test on blood is inconclusive. Is that correct? Am I waiting on a test that is not definitive? If so, what test can I do now to determine if I have is HSV? I feel like I m being tortured.. Please, need answers ASAP! - Desperate for Answers