I am a 64 year old female. I have not had sex more than 3-4 times in the last 5 years. I am married (obviously to a saint) because I have no desire. The last time we tried, it hurt/burned so badly, I was really shaken up. Have tried to talk to my doc about the lack of desire, but she was not interested in hearing it. Not sure what i should do. I have had a complete hysterectomy, not over weight, healthy, etc.