Hello, Thank you for writing to us, I had gone through your query, its a matter that you are not sure even no one could say anything before something happens. there are two possibility first one is - what happens to your cousin s daughter it could not happen with your daughter because to adopt a girl should decision of your both. so he can t even think in that way. and to hug with daughter for father is normal thing for every family. I could suggest here that you should have to observe your husband s attitude while he hug to daughter. another possibility is - Yes you might be right, many people are there who dont understand the value of relationship with father and daughter they are mentally sick. So, if you are sure about it you should clearly instruct your husband to stay away from your daughter because that could only thing you should do. otherwise once something happens than we just have to feel guily nothing else so better is to have preotect your daughter before anything happen. you should concern a psychiatrist also for your query, they should instruct you more deeply and clearly. hope you will be fine with your daughter. have a happy life ahead, thanks & regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati