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Suggest Remedy For Distance In Relationship With Husband

hello sir, My name is Preethika. i am recently married in the month of feb. my age is 23 and my hubby age is 30. ours is arranged marriage. before marriage we both used to speak over the phone. but not like others he wont speak much to me. he alone stayed in chennai and his parents stayed in that village. he wont speak about romance, sex anything. he will not show much interest on me. but he ll speak nicely to his friends n all. if i tell all these to my mom and sister they used to tell it will alright after marriage.even on our 1st night he dint speak much. straight away started doing sex with me. since it was the first time i was not able to co operate with him. from day one of our marriage he ll do sex only once a day. that two only for twenty mins. he cannot do more than twenty mins bcos he will ejaculate semen.he cannot do twice a day.2nd time he cannot able to ejaculate semen. i dunno why. sometimes even if we leave 3 or 4 days also he cant able to ejaculate semen. pls advice.
                                                                 
Wed, 1 Oct 2014
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HI

Thanks for posting your query .

First of all know that some people take time to get intimate with others . Your husband could be one among them . Just give him some more time to get along with you and till then don't pressurise him .

Some people are shy to talk about Romance and sex in the initial stages of relationship but it doesn't mean that they will never speak . They just want to feel comfortable with you . So just wait for few more weeks . You can initiate such talks by yourself and see how he responds but don't overdo it .

Most of the couples ( even newly married ) have sex once a day only . More than that is only possible during Honeymoon time as the couples will be very much relaxed . So once a day sex is not at all abnormal .

But yes he needs to spend more time in making love to you . While you both are on bed you can tell him what you want him to do . Engage him in foreplay by yourself .

Also try to go out for movies or shopping , only you two . Try to know what are his interest and start talking about them .

Everything will become nice , just follow my advise.

Revert back to me and let me know what happened .

Regards .
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Suggest Remedy For Distance In Relationship With Husband

HI Thanks for posting your query . First of all know that some people take time to get intimate with others . Your husband could be one among them . Just give him some more time to get along with you and till then don t pressurise him . Some people are shy to talk about Romance and sex in the initial stages of relationship but it doesn t mean that they will never speak . They just want to feel comfortable with you . So just wait for few more weeks . You can initiate such talks by yourself and see how he responds but don t overdo it . Most of the couples ( even newly married ) have sex once a day only . More than that is only possible during Honeymoon time as the couples will be very much relaxed . So once a day sex is not at all abnormal . But yes he needs to spend more time in making love to you . While you both are on bed you can tell him what you want him to do . Engage him in foreplay by yourself . Also try to go out for movies or shopping , only you two . Try to know what are his interest and start talking about them . Everything will become nice , just follow my advise. Revert back to me and let me know what happened . Regards .