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How To Overcome Depression Due To Relationship Failure?

Hi, My age is 28. I went into relasionship twice but both didn't

work and the guy left me for their own reasons. I feel very low anddepressed. I can not concentrate on my work. My perform in my office is grading day by day. I masturbate almost daily and it makes me feel more sick. My mother is searching for guy for me but i feel no excitement rather i get envy. I am still in conversation with my 2nd boyfriend coz inspite of all when i stop contacting him he comes and say that he is trying to convince his parents but will not marry without their support

and after few days he will again say NO. The same thing is repeating from the past 1 year. I don't what to do but i feel sick and the entire thing is killing me from inside.
Tue, 24 Jun 2014
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Hi young lady,completely read your query,feel really concerned to answer your psychological conflict.first of all let me completely tell you to STOP CHASING THESE GUYS WHO HAVE NO MUTUAL EMOTIONS FOR YOU..sometimes in a relationship it so happens that we expect a lot more things to happen,but they really dont happen.we should not waste giving our love and effort to all people around us who are inefficient and ineligible to receive our love.we should not yiield to such people .u should choose a guy who can be around in your good bad and ugly times.don't feel envious and depressed.there is absolutely no need to feel so.you are young ,dynamic and pretty.so why should u feel low.stop your negative thoughts and start generating the positive energy within you....build confidence daily.earn back your lost momentum.you have a long healthy life ahead of you...prepare yourself to take personal and professional challenges ahead.do not sit and cry.only weak people do.go out explore theworld and give your best.I HOPE YOU WILL BE THOROUGHLY HAPPY IN YOUR NEXT RELATION.....BUT MAKE SURE ITS AFTER 2years.give time for the past relations to die....ITS TIME TO MOVE ON BUDDY.FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME IN CASE YOU FEEL DEPRESSES AGAIN....GOD BLESS YOU...TAKE CARE.:-)
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How To Overcome Depression Due To Relationship Failure?

Hi young lady,completely read your query,feel really concerned to answer your psychological conflict.first of all let me completely tell you to STOP CHASING THESE GUYS WHO HAVE NO MUTUAL EMOTIONS FOR YOU..sometimes in a relationship it so happens that we expect a lot more things to happen,but they really dont happen.we should not waste giving our love and effort to all people around us who are inefficient and ineligible to receive our love.we should not yiield to such people .u should choose a guy who can be around in your good bad and ugly times.don t feel envious and depressed.there is absolutely no need to feel so.you are young ,dynamic and pretty.so why should u feel low.stop your negative thoughts and start generating the positive energy within you....build confidence daily.earn back your lost momentum.you have a long healthy life ahead of you...prepare yourself to take personal and professional challenges ahead.do not sit and cry.only weak people do.go out explore theworld and give your best.I HOPE YOU WILL BE THOROUGHLY HAPPY IN YOUR NEXT RELATION.....BUT MAKE SURE ITS AFTER 2years.give time for the past relations to die....ITS TIME TO MOVE ON BUDDY.FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME IN CASE YOU FEEL DEPRESSES AGAIN....GOD BLESS YOU...TAKE CARE.:-)