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How To Cope With Differences In A Relationship?

Good morning..I've just recently got rejected by a girl i like and i think i feels a bit depressed since i can't really concentrate,So actually, the the start of our relationship wasn't a really good start because in that position i like her when i was still in a relationship with my ex and after a long moral struggle and dilemma, finally i made my decision that i was no longer fit with my ex and i like this girl a lot. Then it's a rough start for us since everybody start badmouthing her as a third person who destroyed my look like happily ever after relationship but with some efforts and prayers in the end i can pass through all that and we became closer. After half a year spending a lot f time together and intense communication, finally i mustered my courage and confess to her. That time she said she needed time to think first and i gave her the space she needed. After 2 weeks then she finally asked to meet me and said that she can't be with me because she doesn't know will she ever accept that i left my ex because of the feeling i have for her. She had a history of being left behind by her ex because her ex cheated on her ex's ex and i kinda understand how she feels about that.What i wanna ask is that.I feels like no matter what she said, i still love her and wanna try to make her feels the same way towards me.. i mean it's not like she dislike me or she has other guys too currently.Is it wrong for me to be that way? Or am i really in denial? Hope you can help me with any insight. Thanks
Fri, 14 Jul 2017
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hello there..
Sorry to hear that..yes the feeling of being rejected by the one you love is very painful but one has to cope with it.Loving someone is not a crime and expecting the same love and affection in return is totally normal and when we dont get back what we deserve ,we start to overthink and it feels like it is the end of the world .One should know ,the key to happiness is you have to move on no matter what the circumstances are.come out from the darkness and see the world differently.get out from ur sorrows only then you will be able to help urself..talk to her,express ur love and make sure she knows how much u love her..The best thing about time is It keeps moving.no matter how hard the current situation is,future has something better for you. just keep going and keep trying..All the best.
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How To Cope With Differences In A Relationship?

hello there.. Sorry to hear that..yes the feeling of being rejected by the one you love is very painful but one has to cope with it.Loving someone is not a crime and expecting the same love and affection in return is totally normal and when we dont get back what we deserve ,we start to overthink and it feels like it is the end of the world .One should know ,the key to happiness is you have to move on no matter what the circumstances are.come out from the darkness and see the world differently.get out from ur sorrows only then you will be able to help urself..talk to her,express ur love and make sure she knows how much u love her..The best thing about time is It keeps moving.no matter how hard the current situation is,future has something better for you. just keep going and keep trying..All the best. thank you