Brief Answer:
Saying sorry will not harm anybody

Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for using healthcaremagic.

I read your query and understand your point of view. I also agree that you should not satisfy her ego but I want you to look other side of story.

There are few things clear from the available narration
1. The person is your boss
2. You raised your voice which was unprofessional manner
3. She approached you repeatedly as she had more faith in you. I will not consider it more capable as it increases the profoundness which is harmful for any human being.
4. Other friends did not consider it appropriate so they started avoiding you.
5. Avoidance by others also indicates that your boss is bossy and threatens others with similar or obvious threats.

I just spoke one side of story but I must admit that practical approach solves many dead locks in life and arguing with some body who has no ability to understand emotions is worthless and your boss seems to be of that caliber only. I must not be judgmental but for solving this I compelled to do so.

By saying sorry you will not be satisfying her ego but you will discard your ego which is preventing you from doing so. Rather than thinking about herself think about yourself. What you are getting from not saying sorry. Just sleepless nights and confusion. Just saying sorry and forgetting the matter will help all of you including your headmistress and others.
I also understand that she may not leave you but I am sure if you do not admit your mistake there is no chance she will spare you.
After saying sorry there are some chance that she will not report to higher authorities.
I hope you do not want to spoil your peace of mind for some unreasonable person.

Having said this I want to say that being reasonable and being practical is two sides of coin and not interchangeable. The wise person uses both sides after due consideration.

Hope I am able to answer your concerns.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
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Thanks and regards

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Brief Answer:
I think it will be better for you to wait for right moment

Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for writing back to me.

Thanks for your acceptance to my biased suggestions and following me.

I think it will be better for you to wait for right moment, as if you complaint right away things will be seen in that regard and many of your seniors may not see the true picture.
Make alliance with other friends and do in collective manner as it has better impact on authorities.
If you have no risk of losing job or that does not matter to you, you can take bold step.
Please be reminded that never lose your cool and always use professional language as filthy language may back fire on you.
Thanks and regards
Dr Ashok Kumar

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