Brief Answer:
This is time to take break for a short while

Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for reverting back to me.

I read your query and understand your concerns.
Although what you mentioned is common for many people as people are more self centric in comapre to past.

Living a simple life is everything for many people like you but society handles us in different way and sometime we do what we dislike most. Your mother and society has there own views and it dose not mean that they are always right.

If i have been at your place I would have done the things differently in the way which suited me most. I am not advising you to do same but in my view that is always better to follow one's heart rather than brain.

If you are not able to say to no to the things which you dislike the another way is to take a short break along with your friends once in a while to rejuvenate your body.

Secondly you can restructure your business which suites most. I know it is very risky to interfere which established structure but without taking risk it is not possible to bring your qualities for maximum utilization.

Thirdly you can outsource your work to another member of family and start the things in your way.

Lastly I like to make it clear that it is not a psychiatric illness and a merely lifestyle decision which can be made by one person and that is you. You need to decide as soon as possible so neither you nor your family business suffers.

Hope I am able to answer your concerns.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
If not, you may close the discussion and if possible you may rate the answer for me, so that I get a good feedback.
Thanks and regards

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