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Posted on Tue, 5 Nov 2019
Question: Hello Doctor
On Sunday, I had been to a Karaoke Club. I had an engagement with a lady where in the lady was topless but had herself covered from the bottom. No sex, oral and or vaginal. We engaged in light kiss and me kissing and sucking her breasts.
The only other thing was she massaged my penis with her hands and for a brief moment, my penis would have brushed against her vaginal area. There was no insertion and it over her undergarments.
Is there any risk
Based on my understanding may I check what is the reason that transmission does not occur outside the body
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Follow up: Dr. Sunil Jangid (0 minute later)
Hello Doctor
On Sunday, I had been to a Karaoke Club. I had an engagement with a lady where in the lady was topless but had herself covered from the bottom. No sex, oral and or vaginal. We engaged in light kiss and me kissing and sucking her breasts.
The only other thing was she massaged my penis with her hands and for a brief moment, my penis would have brushed against her vaginal area. There was no insertion and it over her undergarments.
Is there any risk
Based on my understanding may I check what is the reason that transmission does not occur outside the body
doctor
Answered by Dr. Sunil Jangid (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
You are not at risk of any STIs.

Detailed Answer:
Dear Balachandransanjay,

Welcome to Ask a Specialist Service.

Kissing, handjob and sucking or massaging the breasts are no risk activities for HIV and you had no sexual activity either oral or vaginal so you are absolutely safe and risk free from HIV or other STDs.

Tge best medium for survival of HIV virus is human blood and it becomes inactive within few minutes only outside the human body in an open environment that is why transmission does not occur. If still you want to clear any thing please feel free to ask me again.

Thank You
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Yogesh D
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Answered by Dr. Sunil Jangid (0 minute later)
Brief Answer:
You are not at risk of any STIs.

Detailed Answer:
Dear Balachandransanjay,

Welcome to Ask a Specialist Service.

Kissing, handjob and sucking or massaging the breasts are no risk activities for HIV and you had no sexual activity either oral or vaginal so you are absolutely safe and risk free from HIV or other STDs.

Tge best medium for survival of HIV virus is human blood and it becomes inactive within few minutes only outside the human body in an open environment that is why transmission does not occur. If still you want to clear any thing please feel free to ask me again.

Thank You
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Yogesh D
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Follow up: Dr. Sunil Jangid (22 hours later)
Dear Sir,
Thank You for the reassuring response.
May I just confirm that even though my penis brushed against her vagina as explained in my above post will not change your assessment of my situation.
I have reviewed many of your responses to other similar queries and I felt many people have fear and phobia about this ailment.

May I ask does sexual transmission absolutely requires penentration. Has there been in your knowledge of transmission without penetration. Also when you read CDC literature which is more conservative they talk in terms of probailities like 1 in 2000 cases depending on the nature of the sexual engagement.

Is this really a difficult thing to get. Is there any literature or information that one can reliablly read to get proper information.

Sorry I am trying to move on with my spouse with normal relations and get over my anxiety hence my question. Sorry for the inconvenience
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Follow up: Dr. Sunil Jangid (0 minute later)
Dear Sir,
Thank You for the reassuring response.
May I just confirm that even though my penis brushed against her vagina as explained in my above post will not change your assessment of my situation.
I have reviewed many of your responses to other similar queries and I felt many people have fear and phobia about this ailment.

May I ask does sexual transmission absolutely requires penentration. Has there been in your knowledge of transmission without penetration. Also when you read CDC literature which is more conservative they talk in terms of probailities like 1 in 2000 cases depending on the nature of the sexual engagement.

Is this really a difficult thing to get. Is there any literature or information that one can reliablly read to get proper information.

Sorry I am trying to move on with my spouse with normal relations and get over my anxiety hence my question. Sorry for the inconvenience
doctor
Answered by Dr. Sunil Jangid (16 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Yes transmission requires penetration or contact with cuts or sores.

Detailed Answer:
Dear Balachandransanjay,

thanks for the follow-up and sorry for the delayed reply.

Penetration or contact of infectious fluid with cuts or sores is required for transmission because during vaginal sex, the virus can be passed through tiny cuts or sores in a woman's vagina or on a man's penis and anal intercourse is likely to tear the anus because the skin of the anus is very soft and there are no body fluids to ease (lubricate) the penetration. Oral sex is also risky if there are small cuts or sores in the mouth and they come into contact with any infected body fluid (such as semen or vaginal fluids).

You had slight brushing of your penis for friction of time only with vagina of partner with undergarment so I don't think it puts you at any risk of HIV or other STDs. Further, if the status of your partner is unknown then the chances of getting the infection are unlikely so allay the fear or anxiety, forget the incidence and move on in life with your spouse normally because you are not at risk. If still you need any clarification you can ask me any time and I am here to solve all your queries.

Thank You
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj
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Answered by Dr. Sunil Jangid (0 minute later)
Brief Answer:
Yes transmission requires penetration or contact with cuts or sores.

Detailed Answer:
Dear Balachandransanjay,

thanks for the follow-up and sorry for the delayed reply.

Penetration or contact of infectious fluid with cuts or sores is required for transmission because during vaginal sex, the virus can be passed through tiny cuts or sores in a woman's vagina or on a man's penis and anal intercourse is likely to tear the anus because the skin of the anus is very soft and there are no body fluids to ease (lubricate) the penetration. Oral sex is also risky if there are small cuts or sores in the mouth and they come into contact with any infected body fluid (such as semen or vaginal fluids).

You had slight brushing of your penis for friction of time only with vagina of partner with undergarment so I don't think it puts you at any risk of HIV or other STDs. Further, if the status of your partner is unknown then the chances of getting the infection are unlikely so allay the fear or anxiety, forget the incidence and move on in life with your spouse normally because you are not at risk. If still you need any clarification you can ask me any time and I am here to solve all your queries.

Thank You
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj
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Answered by Dr. Sunil Jangid (45 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Yes you can go for P24 any time after 15 days.

Detailed Answer:
Dear Balachandransanjay,

Thanks for posting the query again.

P24 assay for HIV can be done after 15 days but it is better to wait for one month and go for HIV Duos Ag/ Ab test to get more reliable result. There is no risk in your case so the result will definitely come as negative. Don't get worried and just calm down, forget all these and live your life normally.

Thank You
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj
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Answered by Dr. Sunil Jangid (0 minute later)
Brief Answer:
Yes you can go for P24 any time after 15 days.

Detailed Answer:
Dear Balachandransanjay,

Thanks for posting the query again.

P24 assay for HIV can be done after 15 days but it is better to wait for one month and go for HIV Duos Ag/ Ab test to get more reliable result. There is no risk in your case so the result will definitely come as negative. Don't get worried and just calm down, forget all these and live your life normally.

Thank You
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj
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Follow up: Dr. Sunil Jangid (8 minutes later)
Sir
Please dont say sorry. You are busy responding to others. Permit me to just ask one more question, the lady also suck my chest as well from the responses above I think it should be okay

I will try to move on from here but anxiety is causing stress. may I ask if I were to take a P24 do I have to wait for 28 days. I saw that it can be done anytime between 15 to 25 days

Trust all will be okay and no need to worry

Thank You.
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Follow up: Dr. Sunil Jangid (0 minute later)
Sir
Please dont say sorry. You are busy responding to others. Permit me to just ask one more question, the lady also suck my chest as well from the responses above I think it should be okay

I will try to move on from here but anxiety is causing stress. may I ask if I were to take a P24 do I have to wait for 28 days. I saw that it can be done anytime between 15 to 25 days

Trust all will be okay and no need to worry

Thank You.
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Follow up: Dr. Sunil Jangid (12 hours later)
Dear Sir
I want to use this last post to detail a very good feedback for the responses you have given me. You have been very quick and detailed in your responses. I appreciate that many people reach out to you using this forum to seek advice and doctors like yourself who give their time and respond with utmost sincerity. I am sure this is your service back to society and really appreciate and thank you. Also would like to applaud heathcare magic for providing a platform where people can come and seek advise on their issues. You are doing a pious service and I wish you all the very best
Regards XXXXXXX
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Follow up: Dr. Sunil Jangid (0 minute later)
Dear Sir
I want to use this last post to detail a very good feedback for the responses you have given me. You have been very quick and detailed in your responses. I appreciate that many people reach out to you using this forum to seek advice and doctors like yourself who give their time and respond with utmost sincerity. I am sure this is your service back to society and really appreciate and thank you. Also would like to applaud heathcare magic for providing a platform where people can come and seek advise on their issues. You are doing a pious service and I wish you all the very best
Regards XXXXXXX
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Answered by Dr. Sunil Jangid (12 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Thank you so much.

Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX

Thanks for your motivational and kind words. I am very happy to hear that my advice is helpful to relieve your stress or anxiety and it is my moral duty to help every one who seeks help from me. Thank you once again and will be happy to serve any time if you need any help in future also. Wishing you very happy and healthy life ahead.

Thank You
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj
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Answered by Dr. Sunil Jangid (0 minute later)
Brief Answer:
Thank you so much.

Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX

Thanks for your motivational and kind words. I am very happy to hear that my advice is helpful to relieve your stress or anxiety and it is my moral duty to help every one who seeks help from me. Thank you once again and will be happy to serve any time if you need any help in future also. Wishing you very happy and healthy life ahead.

Thank You
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj
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Hello Doctor On Sunday, I Had Been To A Karaoke

Hello Doctor On Sunday, I had been to a Karaoke Club. I had an engagement with a lady where in the lady was topless but had herself covered from the bottom. No sex, oral and or vaginal. We engaged in light kiss and me kissing and sucking her breasts. The only other thing was she massaged my penis with her hands and for a brief moment, my penis would have brushed against her vaginal area. There was no insertion and it over her undergarments. Is there any risk Based on my understanding may I check what is the reason that transmission does not occur outside the body