Question: I got married recent. About 2 months back.
After marriage my wife stayed with me for a week and then left for her parents house. After that she was speaking to me well. But then her ex-boy friend sent my entire family's facebook intimate photos of her with him and few more boys. She accepted sexual relation only with one person. But photos speaks more.
After that rumour of her being in relation with many more boy came. Some even claimed she had aborted child. I don't have proof.
My family wants divorce. I am confused.
I am getting suicidal thoughts. I am in a state of confusion. Her elder brother is threatening to kill me if I leave her.
I have soft corners for her but neither my parents will accept her nor the society. Our family reputation is in question. I don't know what I should do.
She keeps quarreling with me that keeping multiple sexual relation before marriage is normal in todays world. I don't start the topic myself. She herself starts the topic and starts quarrelling. She says she wants to continue the marriage but I have to accept her past as normal. She is assuring in future she wont do these things. I
I am totally confused what I should do? My heart beats loud 24 hours. I cannot sleep at night. Even if I sleep I get up suddenly to find my heart beating. I often feel I will jump from the terrace.