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Can Someone's Caring Nature Be Mistaken To Be A Soft Corner For Another?

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Posted on Wed, 23 Aug 2017
Question: Hi,
I had whatsapp message my male trainer to thank him for calling out to me and ask if I want to drink water and I said I felt very touched. He replied he asked everyone if they want to drink water.

Does this means he don't want me to mistaken/get the wrong idea or is he simply shy?
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Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (31 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
He just wanted to tell you that this is a normal thing.

Detailed Answer:
Hello thanks for asking from HCM

Well if he asked for water during training then that is a normal thing and no need to overanalyse that. Since you said thanks to him so in a humble reply he said that he asked everyone if they want water.

He just wanted to tell you that this is a normal thing and this doesn't mean that he didn't want you to get wrong idea.

Thanks.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Kampana
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Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (1 hour later)
I replied by saying I noticed and understand. perhaps I was too affectionate in my way of thanking. Please do not mistaken that it is wishful thinking on my part.

Is it I would have given myself away by saying do not mistaken that it is wishful thinking on my part?

actually not I feel embarrassed the next time I meet him for training and do not know how to react.
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Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (54 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
This is a normal thing.

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

He would have ignored this thing and he is not analysing this so there should be no fear of embarrassment. You said thanks to him and he just said he does this for others too. That is normal for him so stop worrying about that.

Talk and behave normally when you meet him next time. Behave as if nothing happened (in reality nothing happened).

No you should not reply to his message now. No need to say anything to clear the thing which is not there.

Thanks and Take care
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Kampana
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Can Someone's Caring Nature Be Mistaken To Be A Soft Corner For Another?

Brief Answer: He just wanted to tell you that this is a normal thing. Detailed Answer: Hello thanks for asking from HCM Well if he asked for water during training then that is a normal thing and no need to overanalyse that. Since you said thanks to him so in a humble reply he said that he asked everyone if they want water. He just wanted to tell you that this is a normal thing and this doesn't mean that he didn't want you to get wrong idea. Thanks.