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Can an extra-marital affair online and a habit of watching pornography be stopped without psychological help?

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Dr. Ivo Ditah

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Posted on Thu, 15 Nov 2018 in Relationship
Question: Y husband has been having an affair on. Line , both taking photos and sending back and forth with comments. Also porno sites. Is this something he can just stop without psychological help?
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Answered by Dr. Ivo Ditah 12 minutes later
Brief Answer:
Have you talked to him about this?

Detailed Answer:

Hi,

I am very sorry to hear about what you found out about your husband. I don't think he needs psychological help for a start. People often indulge in such acts when they think their sexual needs are not being met. Try confronting him about this and if possible, get involved in more sexual and intimate contact with him. This will satisfy the urge for such and will keep him off these sites. I am just convinced and confident this will work. Hold him, kiss him, give him light and comforting touches, and why not even have sex with him. Remember all those things are used to bond you guys to each other and do them again and again.

If this fails, only then will I request that you seek professional counseling.

I hope this helps. I wish you well. Let me know if I can assist you further.

Regards,
Dr. Ivo Ditah,
Internal Medicine Specialist

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Ivo Ditah 40 minutes later
Yes I have talked to him about this over the years. He is not that interested in having sex with me. It was hot and heavy before we were married. He has also approached some friends of mine. Thank you for your help.
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Answered by Dr. Ivo Ditah 5 hours later
Brief Answer:
Keep me updated!

Detailed Answer:

Hi,

I am sure you know how to seduce him. I recommend you use those same tricks that used to work for him and use them again. I have no reason why he seems disinterested in you and rather indulging in such disrespectful acts.

I wish you well. Let's see whether he gets to change and you succeed at seducing and taking him away from these practices.

Hope I have answered your query.

Regards,
Dr. Ivo Ditah,
Internal Medicine Specialist
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