my husband is having trouble getting aroused. He is 58 and doesn't seem to be interested in sex. I am more interest than he is. We are both healthy. What can I do to arouse him? I want to plan sex on the weekends and he isn't interested in planning it. Our 32 year old son just moved out and I am thrilled and my husband doesn't show much reaction. he spends a lot of time on Craigs list looking for motorcycle parts. he like big boobs and I don't have them. We have sex maybe 1 time a week or less. I am thinking about buying horny goat weed. Would that help? I have a pretty good figure and highlight my hair and work outside the home. I can get compliments from other men but noy muvh from my husband. On our daughter's wedding day 3 months ago he said I looked "nice". not the word I was looking for. j9