i am 120 kg and 31 years old not married yet. i had sex with my boy friend for last 7 years. we had and having complete sex or fingring etc even now. i am gettig marry to some one else next year. so how can i hide all this from my future husband and will i be able to conceive then if v try for baby? i scared now i will be infertile because of uncountable times of complete sex and irregular periods. please help and guide me.