Hello Thanks for query You have not mentioned age of your husband in your query . Based on the facts that you have posted I would state that your husband has sexual problems like loss of libido(Sex desire) ,Erectile Dysfunction and Premature ejaculation . He needs to get investigated to find out the cause of his problems . Please consult qualified Urologist for clinical examination and get following basic tests done to confirm the diagnosis. 1) Blood tests for sugar levels to rule out Diabetes 2) Serum Testosterone which a hormone that governs sexual desire 3) Thyroid hormone assessment 4) Penile Doppler Scan of penis to rule out vascular insufficiency as a caause of his ED. Taking Sildenafil one hour before planned sexual activities will help to get good hard erection and delay ejaculation . Further treatment will depend upon result of these tests and final diagnosis and cause of his ED. Dr.Patil