Hello,
Thank you for writing to HCM,
No interesting intercourse with your partner or also your partner should having some kind of problems or she could be disturbed. So, Due to that she cant concentrate in sex with you.
I would suggest that spend more time with your partner for increasing sex drive. also try to know that whether she is disturbed for anything if yes than help her to getting out of it.
As you said you tried foreplay and rub vagina also than also go for fingering and some other tricks to getting her excited.
For more satisfaction and sexual pleasure while having sex i would like to suggest you to go for
Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse.
Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati