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I have been in a relationship for 2.5 yrs. 9 months into it he has stopped showing any affection other than a kiss when dropping him off at work. In the beginning after he moved in he was normal with the affection. Then he moved in and started complaining about my adult son that is living with me. He started complaining about my weight, made comments about me not doing certain things. I lost weight and consider myself attractive. When I started asking why he told me I m not listening to him, not being specific. When we got into this relationship he wasn t working and showed the affection . Started working and then started complaining about my adult son. I have made him dependent on me because he had cushings disease and had his pituitary partial removed and then yrs later (8) he had 6 wks of radiation which I believe why he seems to be in a depression. He is 30. We have talked and II m having a hard time giving him a 2 month warning before he has to get out. He resently got medical because of not being able to hold a job. MY other son works and is here mostly weekdays because he works in my area. He is due to court for a class x felony and may have to accept a plea and don t know if he willl be going in today. My boyfriend knew all this when he entered this relationship. I have expressed how having even a hug would help what I m going through. He has not even given me a passionite kiss for a yr and a half. He went to the doctor and health is good. thatwa his eccuse . What should I do?
I think, this is case the of relationship issue and you should take help of psychologist. You and your partner need couple therapy, that would help to find out the reason, why he is behaving like this. May be he is tense due to some reason or there may be something else. Rest, you can consult a psychologist for proper help.
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Hi Thanks for using healthcare magic I think, this is case the of relationship issue and you should take help of psychologist. You and your partner need couple therapy, that would help to find out the reason, why he is behaving like this. May be he is tense due to some reason or there may be something else. Rest, you can consult a psychologist for proper help. Thanks