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What Is The Treatment Of Male Sexual Problems?
Hello I am a 23 year old male. I can insert my penis (13CM) fully into my girls vagina.
The problem is that during sex (oral or traditional) I can not feel any pleasure at all its like I dont do nothing... or its like my girls vagina has tons of lubrication(which most is not the case at all some times she is almost not wet when we start)
I have a sensation but it is mostly like an annoying rubbing with some "touches" of very light pain at some times...
I cant feel pleasure during masturbation aswell.. I can only tell when I am about to ejaculate.. (I fell that I am about to ejaculate and after 1 to 4 seconds I do so)
Ejaculation is not that pleasurfull at all... it (only some times) has a small factor of lets say pleasure that lasts for 1 or 2 seconds when I ejaculate. I remember the time when I was younger (14-16) when the pleasure from masturbation was extraordinary... I used to get excited before ejaculation and the ejaculation was an orgasm! I even could feel the nervs on my feet to shake.... Now I dont feel at all like that not even in sex.....
The strange thing is that despite that I cant feel anything during sex I ejaculate within 1 minute or 4 minutes max! some times 10 minutes but this is a rare case ( I tried both hard and rapid penetrations as well as slow and smooth ones.. same result) And the ejaculation is annoying aswell some times (I feel like the sperm is finding a curve inside me and squeezes its way out so that I feel kind of ichy some times...) The next problem is that I am not solid hard as a young man should be.... when I was 16 my penis looked up to the sky... now its hight is like middle oriented and I can manage to keep it up with my will but only for seconds .. and during sex it gets soft.. because I get tired I think I am little fat as well...
My girlfriend arouses me I like her body and she needs just to be a few meters near me and just to talk to me in order for me to get aroused.. So my flacid moments dont have anything to do with her in my opinnion....
IS there any dermatologic therapy or laser or treatment to fix me? or am I doomed not ever been able to feel the crazy pleasure that my other friends tell me about their sex lifes.... ? :(
The problem is that during sex (oral or traditional) I can not feel any pleasure at all its like I dont do nothing... or its like my girls vagina has tons of lubrication(which most is not the case at all some times she is almost not wet when we start)
I have a sensation but it is mostly like an annoying rubbing with some "touches" of very light pain at some times...
I cant feel pleasure during masturbation aswell.. I can only tell when I am about to ejaculate.. (I fell that I am about to ejaculate and after 1 to 4 seconds I do so)
Ejaculation is not that pleasurfull at all... it (only some times) has a small factor of lets say pleasure that lasts for 1 or 2 seconds when I ejaculate. I remember the time when I was younger (14-16) when the pleasure from masturbation was extraordinary... I used to get excited before ejaculation and the ejaculation was an orgasm! I even could feel the nervs on my feet to shake.... Now I dont feel at all like that not even in sex.....
The strange thing is that despite that I cant feel anything during sex I ejaculate within 1 minute or 4 minutes max! some times 10 minutes but this is a rare case ( I tried both hard and rapid penetrations as well as slow and smooth ones.. same result) And the ejaculation is annoying aswell some times (I feel like the sperm is finding a curve inside me and squeezes its way out so that I feel kind of ichy some times...) The next problem is that I am not solid hard as a young man should be.... when I was 16 my penis looked up to the sky... now its hight is like middle oriented and I can manage to keep it up with my will but only for seconds .. and during sex it gets soft.. because I get tired I think I am little fat as well...
My girlfriend arouses me I like her body and she needs just to be a few meters near me and just to talk to me in order for me to get aroused.. So my flacid moments dont have anything to do with her in my opinnion....
IS there any dermatologic therapy or laser or treatment to fix me? or am I doomed not ever been able to feel the crazy pleasure that my other friends tell me about their sex lifes.... ? :(
Fri, 27 Dec 2019
Hello,
I suggest you visit your psychiatrist if there is anything wrong with your body psychologically. Meanwhile you can get guidance through many support groups and sexologist as well to improve your sexual life.
Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Take care
Regards,
Dr SAMEEN BIN NAEEM, General & Family Physician
I suggest you visit your psychiatrist if there is anything wrong with your body psychologically. Meanwhile you can get guidance through many support groups and sexologist as well to improve your sexual life.
Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Take care
Regards,
Dr SAMEEN BIN NAEEM, General & Family Physician
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