Hello thanks for asking from HCM for your health related queries You have problem of premature ejaculation. This is causing significant impairment to your personal life. Premature ejaculation can be treated with proper drug therapy and psychoeducation about sexual intercourse. Spend more and more time in foreplay and try to divert your attention while doing intercourse. Kegel s exercise (pelvic muscle strengthening exercise), Master and Johnson s (Start stop technique) exercises are very helpful in premature ejaculation. You should take help from a sexologist for details of these methods. If symptoms persist even after following the methods I have mentioned then medicines like SSRIs especially Dapoxetine can help. Dapoxetine help to delay ejaculation and result in improvement in time. Visit a psychiatrist for prescription of the drug. Your second problem is size of penis. I would like to tell you that it is the erection what maters and not the size. If you are getting good erections then you can satisfy a female without any fear. No medicines can increase the size of penis so don t fall prey of false advertisements. Jelqing can help to improve the size if practiced regularly. You can take help of youtube for that. Thanks, hope this helps you. Take care Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi MD Psychiatry http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/Funnel?page=askDoctorDirectly&docId=65151