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What Causes Sexual Attraction Towards Men Being A Male?

hello, i m male 24yrs. i m a virgin and i gets more excited towadrs men,that i want to stop. what shuld i do? i think i ve a problem in my penis. i was used to masturbate daily min 4-5 times. now i ve reduced this count to 1-2 times. and i ve noticed since many years that my penis is bent or u can say that the saft is in curved form. and when i pull back my foreskin of my penis it gets tightened around the pink region and i find it very difficult to pull forward my foreskin. so i never again tried this. let me know these 2 r the problems or it s ok. one more thing i want to know, during sex is it necessary to pull back the penis foreskin while wearing a condom or not. plz reply me.....i think there is a ?(question mark ) on my man-hood. thanks!..
Tue, 21 Apr 2015
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You ave very boldly and courageousely come out with your concerns and I must complement you for the same.
I shall discuss your problems one by one.
1. The pain you are getting while you are retracting your prepuce (skin on the head of the penis) suggests that you are having a condition called as partial phymosis, wherein the prepuce s tight over the head. It is very simple to treat it. Get circumscribed from some surgeon and you will be OK. Please remember, it is impossible to perform a penetrative sex without retracting the prepuce. So do not hesitate and get circumscribed. It is a minor surgery.
2. Sexual orientation is an individual sexual inclination. Some are hetrosexual (attraction towards oppsit sex), some homosexual (attraction towards same sex) while some are bisexual (attraction towards both). There is nothing abnormal to have any of these orientations. The fact that at this age of 24 years, you are attracted towards men and now you are finding attraction towards women shows that your orientation could be bisexual. Nothing abnormal. May be after experiencing both, your orientation may change and fix up.
3. Mansturbation has no relation with the sexual orientation. You should NEVER feel guilty of manstubating. Almost 90%+ males mansturbate.
4. Little curve in the shaft of your penis is not a worrying thing. This is just an individual variation in the shape of the penis which many males do have. It will not come in way of your sexual life.
So leave your sexual worries and enjoy your sexual life when you perform.
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What Causes Sexual Attraction Towards Men Being A Male?

You ave very boldly and courageousely come out with your concerns and I must complement you for the same. I shall discuss your problems one by one. 1. The pain you are getting while you are retracting your prepuce (skin on the head of the penis) suggests that you are having a condition called as partial phymosis, wherein the prepuce s tight over the head. It is very simple to treat it. Get circumscribed from some surgeon and you will be OK. Please remember, it is impossible to perform a penetrative sex without retracting the prepuce. So do not hesitate and get circumscribed. It is a minor surgery. 2. Sexual orientation is an individual sexual inclination. Some are hetrosexual (attraction towards oppsit sex), some homosexual (attraction towards same sex) while some are bisexual (attraction towards both). There is nothing abnormal to have any of these orientations. The fact that at this age of 24 years, you are attracted towards men and now you are finding attraction towards women shows that your orientation could be bisexual. Nothing abnormal. May be after experiencing both, your orientation may change and fix up. 3. Mansturbation has no relation with the sexual orientation. You should NEVER feel guilty of manstubating. Almost 90%+ males mansturbate. 4. Little curve in the shaft of your penis is not a worrying thing. This is just an individual variation in the shape of the penis which many males do have. It will not come in way of your sexual life. So leave your sexual worries and enjoy your sexual life when you perform.