a few weeks ago my penis began to hurt. i looked at it with a mirror and there was a red moist and inflamed area below the tip on the rim (i don t know what ths part is called). i dried the area hoping it would go away and it appeared to be healing on it s own. But today it began hurting again and it is swelling at the same spot with a thi moist white coating over the swelling. I am a 69 year old man, divorced, and have not had any sex for over 7 years. No other health problems except I am very overweight. I workout 3x week for approx 2 hours. I eat to much.