Lower back pain, reduced with pressure on certain points. Fatigued easier than normal, bloody urine,sometimes bloody semen, paranoia and anger issues, loss of work ethic and drive, (very unheard of) no motivation at all for much of anything but to procrastinate and get into very intense arguements, nothing calms him down. Seems like something goes off inside and the hurricane passed he then starts reasoning and being almost too affectionate. HELP ME FIGURE THIS OUT? IM LOSING MY FAMILY AND HE IS BLAMING ME ENTIRELY , BASED ON THE SITUATIONS HE AND ONLY HE HAS ALL THE DETAILS OF. IMPOSSIBLE TO RECONCILE WITH., male, 35 years of age,150-+ lbs.5 8 caucasian. Outdoor physical laborer for 15+ years. id say great- excellent health, but is a smoker, drinker, moderate- heavy.Family history of heart problems, but no family history documentation past his parents with whom he never really had reliable communication with. Im stuck and hes stubborn.