Hi. My 78 yr old father s Alzheimer s is progressing towards moderate levels, and my 76 yr old mom is wearing out. Is palatative care appropriate to help at home? (Bladder incontinence is becoming an issue.) My dad visits a local Wilder Foundation care center 2x /wk, but my mom needs assistance at home, or my father will put dishes, foods, keys, etc. where my mom can t find them. For