Thanks for writing in.
I do understand your concern. It is unlikely that you have HIV or herpes
. As you said, we do need you to see a physician and get tested for Sexually transmitted infections but HIV, syphilis
or herpes is not what we are looking at here. We are looking at something like gonorrhoea
or chlamydia here or it could just be an allergic reaction
It would be better if you see a physician soon and get tested. Till then, please use adequate protection while having sexual intercourse.
Hope this helps