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Suggest Ways To Make The Long Distance Relationship Work

hiii
i am suffering from some problems
basically i recently got married
and we dont really stay together
as he is outside the country on job purpose
i think a lot about everything
how to manage our relationship
how to manage my keens n in-laws
how to maintain my job
for these reason i cant really sleep at night
as a result i really feel dizzy
Wed, 18 Jun 2014
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Your problem is loneliness and isolation. And the solution to this is to keep yourself busy and indulge in social relations. Shift your focus and energy into doing something rather more productive.
I've answered all your queries:
- you can manage your relationship by accepting it the way it is. Reduce your expectations from your husband as it will just sour your relationship with him. You need to understand that there is not much he can do himself because of the distance.

- Your parents and in laws do understand the kind of isolation are going through. Dont worry about how to manage them. Just be nice to them and show that you are happy and content with the relationship..

- Maintaining your job will be the best thing you can do for yourself right now. You can shift all your full time towards devoting to your job. The outcomes will be brilliant if you do it with full dedication.
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Suggest Ways To Make The Long Distance Relationship Work

Your problem is loneliness and isolation. And the solution to this is to keep yourself busy and indulge in social relations. Shift your focus and energy into doing something rather more productive. I ve answered all your queries: - you can manage your relationship by accepting it the way it is. Reduce your expectations from your husband as it will just sour your relationship with him. You need to understand that there is not much he can do himself because of the distance. - Your parents and in laws do understand the kind of isolation are going through. Dont worry about how to manage them. Just be nice to them and show that you are happy and content with the relationship.. - Maintaining your job will be the best thing you can do for yourself right now. You can shift all your full time towards devoting to your job. The outcomes will be brilliant if you do it with full dedication.