Hi
I had gone through your query.
1st you have to accept the fact that your penis size is not increase by any mean.
No treatment help.
It is natural and god gifted so not to think about it.
masturbation is normal physiological function of our body
it is one the method to satisfy sexual pleasure in absent of partner
both sex and masturbation has same and has same end result to get satisfaction
so no need to worry.
Premature ejaculation can be treated with both psychologically and drug therapy
Psychological means
to learn how to stay long
certain methods like
women on top position
condoms
lubricated with
benzocaine kegel's exercise will help ful .please read on net and learn how to do it
Stop and start method of sex is very good results. it is thought diversion method and require time to learn .
masturbating before sex can increase your time
Proper play and understanding is needed.
I hope i have answered your query.
feel free to ask.
Thank you.