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sex really hurts for me, it feels like he s stabbing me deep inside. last night was the first time I had sex in over a year. last year I had cystitis for 2 months after sex, and during felt really painful. last night it was the same painful experience as the last time. I don t know what s wrong..
Hi dear, sometimes due to inadequate lubrication during sexual activity makes very pain during it first of all do proper fore play for minimum 30 mins so your vagina gets proper lubrication. and during initial few sexual relation there is pain due to small vaginal opening and may be bleeding due to intact hymen so not to worry regarding that. do sex initially very slowly so female partner feel relaxed and if need use lubricant jelly so insertion is smoother and pain is less. consult a sexologist for detail counselling. Thank you
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Hi dear, sometimes due to inadequate lubrication during sexual activity makes very pain during it first of all do proper fore play for minimum 30 mins so your vagina gets proper lubrication. and during initial few sexual relation there is pain due to small vaginal opening and may be bleeding due to intact hymen so not to worry regarding that. do sex initially very slowly so female partner feel relaxed and if need use lubricant jelly so insertion is smoother and pain is less. consult a sexologist for detail counselling. Thank you