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Suggest Treatment For Sexual Problems
Me and my boyfriend have just recently starting having sex. The first 2 times we used condoms because I had taken medicine that made my Depo shot effective and he would go limp in the middle of sex. Yesterday night we tried and we did not use condoms (thinking the reason he was going limp was cause the condom was too tight) well in the middle of sex he went limp again. He has no problem at all with getting erect. Even before we started having sex i would give him oral sex and he would never go limp and always ejaculated. Is it something that im doing wrong (like could I be too luberticated) or what could cause this?
Fri, 19 Dec 2014
Hello ma'am and welcome.
If at all, all his medical reports prove nothing but a normal result then the cause could be lack of stimulus during the act of sexual intercourse.
May be the condom is too thick and preventing adequate stimulation of his glans penis, may be you are not providing enough stimulation, may be your response to the whole act or some other factor is turning him off whilst he is involved in penetrative intercourse.
The condom.being too tight can also prevent long lasting erections, it is best to first discuss what he feels amongst eachother, and if at all the problem is not solved, then approach a sex specialist.
Hope this helps.
Best wishes.
If at all, all his medical reports prove nothing but a normal result then the cause could be lack of stimulus during the act of sexual intercourse.
May be the condom is too thick and preventing adequate stimulation of his glans penis, may be you are not providing enough stimulation, may be your response to the whole act or some other factor is turning him off whilst he is involved in penetrative intercourse.
The condom.being too tight can also prevent long lasting erections, it is best to first discuss what he feels amongst eachother, and if at all the problem is not solved, then approach a sex specialist.
Hope this helps.
Best wishes.
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