Hello ma'am and welcome.

I understand how the first time can be difficult and a little more lubrication and tolerance may be required, but from there on it should not be as difficult, trust me.

I would also like to add that your husband could first try inserting one finger into your vagina, which has to be well lubricated. Once he does so with ease, he can try to introduce two fingers at a time. If you can tolerate that well enough without experiencing extreme pain, he can then try to insert his penis.

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Hope this helps.

Best wishes.