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hi... so when i am having sex with my boyfriend and i get aroused...a bit more than usual...i find i can not talk....theres nothing even going through my mind for me to say. my mind is even silent so i just kind of stare at him when he asks what i want and i cant really answer except to use my arms. its only happened a couple of times now and i am wondering what is going on
Excitement while having intercourse must be there but if there is too much excited at starting than it might be problem that female partner should not be satisfy by intercourse.
I had gone through your query and as you didnt described anything like foreplay or oral sex while having sex. I would suggest that spend more time with your partner for increasing sex drive.
For more satisfaction and sexual pleasure while having sex i would like to suggest you to go for Oral sex & foreplay first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse.
Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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Suggest Treatment For High Sex Drive In Women
Hello, Thank you for writing to HCM, Excitement while having intercourse must be there but if there is too much excited at starting than it might be problem that female partner should not be satisfy by intercourse. I had gone through your query and as you didnt described anything like foreplay or oral sex while having sex. I would suggest that spend more time with your partner for increasing sex drive. For more satisfaction and sexual pleasure while having sex i would like to suggest you to go for Oral sex & foreplay first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse. Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better. Hope you will find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati