I have just started a relationship with a guy who told me that we had to wait a couple of weeks before we could have sex, because he had hurt himself masterbating. He has told me he wanted to take our relationship (sex) slow. However I did give him oral sex and he seemed to enjoy it but coulc not keep his erection and did not ejaculate. What concerns me is that he wants me to stick my finger up his ass.

Should I be concerned? Is this a gay tendency?

I really would appreciate your help as I do like him.



Maria