I am unable to urinate, this has been going on for at least 36 hrs, and im also unable to have a bowel movement going on 3 days now, I do not want to go to the hospital although my wife insists, is there anything I can do to keep from goin to the hospital, I have tried drinking more water, I took a shower, and have been running water in the sink while I try to use the restroom and nothing has worked. my lower stomach on my left side and back is also hurting.