Last night i noticed a peanut size zit(abcess) on my outer lip area and it was sensitive.. I looked at it closelyand it seemed to be ready to pop.. I squeezed it a bit and most of it came out/clear liquid no blood or anything.. before i could drain it all it was really irritated from me bothering it. So i let it be.. Woke up and it was a little worse in size.. swollen. I tried squeezing it out but i think the hole closed more, or thatit got thicker so only a little bit came out and i felt it burst uner skin,felt relief right after.. i wanted drain the rest out, i was really stupid and kept messing with it for about 20 minutes.. AND NOW ITS SUPER SWOLLEN!!! like i am embarrassed and ive been crying cuz i dont want to goto the ER. (i dont have insurance for another 2 months)... ive taken a bath twice in warm water trying to help it get a head, it is pink and i dont see a head now.. even if i didnt have a small abcess to begin with, would my labia still get this swollen??! i know its a sensitive area and i really squeezed and tugged on it..