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Suggest Treatment For BPD

Hi, I am 29 years old and my girl friend is 30 years old we have been in the relationship for the past five. I stay in hyderabad and she stays in delhi. We have a strong bonding for over 4 years. In April 2010, her father got paralysis attack and she started getting deviated from the relationship. She is a very simple and commited girl. She used to be shy in the beginnng and later on over years her emtional attachement towards me grew very much (We dont have any physical relationship). We were just waiting to get married, her dad s health condition changed her alot. She has lots of changes in her character. Now when everything is set for the marrriage she says she can no more think of our relation. We never had a fight or an argument over all these years. She used to be very supporting and she used to pray god to get married with me. Her behavior and attitude towards her friends also changed. I think she has BPD, can some help us out ....
Tue, 18 Nov 2014
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. The description you gave about your girl friend is not at all assisting us to diagnose her problem. You noted that her father is paralyzed and undergoing continuous treatment and she is assisting her. Continuous assistance to a paralyzed person could change her view about her life and future. You should talk to her regarding this in detail. Appraising her about the change in her behavior patterns could help her much. If need be, consult a psychologist and provide counseling to her.

Psychotherapy techniques should suit your requirement. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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Suggest Treatment For BPD

Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. The description you gave about your girl friend is not at all assisting us to diagnose her problem. You noted that her father is paralyzed and undergoing continuous treatment and she is assisting her. Continuous assistance to a paralyzed person could change her view about her life and future. You should talk to her regarding this in detail. Appraising her about the change in her behavior patterns could help her much. If need be, consult a psychologist and provide counseling to her. Psychotherapy techniques should suit your requirement. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.