Hello and welcome to Healthcare Magic. Thanks for your query. I understand that you may be suffering from premature ejaculation. Now, there are two things that I would like to let you know. Firstly, you should be realistic and practical in your expectations. There are no instant solutions which can make such drastic changes. Secondly, if you are suffering from premature ejaculation, then you need a detailed evaluation in order to find out why you are suffering from this problem. This will include a detailed medical, sexual, personal and social history, a thorough physical examination and certain investigations, as per the necessity. Only if the cause is identified correctly, appropriate treatment can be given. Very often the cause is due to excessive anxiety and fear regarding sexual performance (what is called performance anxiety ). So, I would advise you to see a sexologist in your place for a detailed evaluation and further treatment. Treatment will involve sexual counselling and in some cases, medication can also be helpful. Wish you all the best. Regards, Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar Consultant Psychiatrist & Sexologist