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Suggest Remedy For Weaning Off The Feeling Of Attracting Men Who Are Around
I have this feeling to attract men. I prioritize this feeling before anything else. What does this make my character?I dont feel good about this. But i couldnt stop this urge to get the attraction of men around me. Can you suggest me a way to get through this?
Fri, 4 Jul 2014
Hello. Thanks for posting your query.
I am Dr. Jaydeep and glad to assist you.
It is completely natural to try and attract the opposite sex, who are good looking around you. Sometimes this thoughts over power us, and we get distracted. I do understand what you're going through. The good thing here is that you know what is the problem, and you yourself can be strong here and let it not affect your work. One more thing that you can try is, if you really like someone, get in touch with him to know him. Once you're committed you won't try to attract any other men.
It does not make your character negative. Everyone looks at attractive people and make assumptions. They flirt and see if they can take it to the next level.
I can assure you once you're committed you won't be trying to attract other men. I also applaud that you actually shared your problem.
Please don't feel bad about this. Everyone does that. Some more openly.
Hope this is helpful.
Please feel free to discuss further.
Regards
I am Dr. Jaydeep and glad to assist you.
It is completely natural to try and attract the opposite sex, who are good looking around you. Sometimes this thoughts over power us, and we get distracted. I do understand what you're going through. The good thing here is that you know what is the problem, and you yourself can be strong here and let it not affect your work. One more thing that you can try is, if you really like someone, get in touch with him to know him. Once you're committed you won't try to attract any other men.
It does not make your character negative. Everyone looks at attractive people and make assumptions. They flirt and see if they can take it to the next level.
I can assure you once you're committed you won't be trying to attract other men. I also applaud that you actually shared your problem.
Please don't feel bad about this. Everyone does that. Some more openly.
Hope this is helpful.
Please feel free to discuss further.
Regards
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